I grew up in a very small town and I just blended in.
Our farm had a private lake and was a popular hang out spot.
I guess I was a little bit of a flirt and maybe a little adventurous.

 

Nurd jock.

 

It makes me sad to see how many people were bullied. I was bullied in junior high by a chick named Diane Greene. I was new and super shy and she was a cunt lol

 

I’m a pretty big guy now 6”2 235. I was a tiny twink looking kid lol I was like 5”6 100 pounds and looked like I was 12. I was a “jock”/ class clown, but I feel like most people just tolerated me. I was afraid of pretty much everyone guys and girls. It gave me a lot of confidence issues until I quite literally grew up when I joined the navy. When I got taller and put on some weight I was ready to go.

 

I was the one who bullied the bully’s Sometimes it was stealthy, AKA: punching their lights out just walking down the hall. Unannounced, the principal was kind of tolerant , But there was detention, but never expelled, much to the dismay of a couple of parents

 

Young.

 

Just a guy with friends from all groups.

 

That varied over the years. In early years I got picked on. I worked out with weights and took karate lessons. Eventually the bullies left me alone, although I never had the opportunity to try out my karate on them.

In my senior year I was the class comedian. I would say witticisms that made the class laugh. They were clean, and not at the expense of anyone.

 

I had a few friends, not the popular kids though for the most part. I wasn't bullied, nor did I do any bullying. But I was very protective of my cousins and friends, so I'd intervene in any altercation they were involved with and verbally abuse whoever started on them.
I only got physical one time (slammed a kid against a locker while a teacher ignored us both because kid had called my cousin a whore) but never got a detention or anything. I never got in any trouble actually, was a bookworm that didn't care much for human company unless it was through a computer or phone screen even then.

 

I was the one your parents and possibly your pastor warned you about. Generally a first class fuck-up that I payed for until I decided to attend college(after military duty) at age 41.

 

Bullying is harsher among boys. The victims are often beaten up.

 

Because I was living away from home with family friends to attend high school I hated it, My mother couldn't afford the fare for me to return home every school holiday so I felt alone for the best part of my high school years
I was the quiet confused girl that struggled to make friends, I didn't know at the time I was gay so it was a trying time for me as I started to have mixed feelings as I matured.

 

LOL. Yikes. You made me remember. First, I was small and a nerd, definite bullying material. I was ALSO really well liked, our "NERD" group included guys who were varsity athletes as freshmen, the core group dressed in surplus army clothes and one of us was missing fingers from a bomb we had been making detonating prematurely. The only kid that really tried to bully me( I wore steel toed boots and one kick was all it took, "Ill catch you without them boots one of these days" he found himself in the same class at the nearby Junior College as I, I was a freshman 9th grade, he sophmore 10th, both taking judo at night. I kicked his ass there for 2 solid years. SO I was good with the guys. I got beat up ONCE, a misunderstanding, I didn't do it. But coming to school with a broken nose, 2 black eyes, split lips, and I had bruised kidneys that couldn't be seen, what I got was, "Damn, you stood up to Bill? Head cheerleader came over and hugged me and asked if I was OK. I refused to file charges with Police( it was off campus on Saturday) I got respect. Every time the 6'2" 195 lb 1st team league wide receiver knocked me down, I got back up and called him more names. It wasn't courage, the first time I stayed down is when he kicked me in the kidneys. There were plenty of witnesses.
Now, with the girls? Total loser. Permanent resident of the friend zone. I deserved it. I had NO self confidence and no idea how unattractive that was. If I had I FAKED confidence enough to get a date, I might have actually GOT confident. I went on 2 dates in High school. 2. I was a really nice kid, Baptist minister's son that did not rebel, but believed. And was completely dysfuctional and confused by my moral values, my church values, what media was telling me, what everyone around me was doing, and what my poor neglected aching and over masturbated cock was telling me. Geeze, I really don't ever think about High School. Fuck you for asking. LOL.

 

As awkward a teenager as there ever was, but I was generally more upbeat besides myb15 year old emo phase but then I got much more comfortable with myself.

I'd never go back though!

 

I did ok, good student and ok popular I guess.
I was mostly just there to get my grades and leave.

Never really liked hanging out with people my age at the time. College was the same, took me a while to realise most people don't mature.

 

I was always classified as "a nerd"..I wore glasses most of my life,and if someone came close to me was because I could explain all mathe and difficult stuff for them..
I never got really into socializing,until I was an adult,and even today,I do not have so many friends that I can count..
I live my life on my own, mostly,and try to help others,but school was mostly a race to get my notes,leave and make further decisions...

 

A stoner! Everyone knew I had the good stuff.

 

Need book worm shy awkward

 

One of the things I have learned over the years is that whether or not I like the people with whom I am in contact is usually less important to my happiness and well being than whether or not they like me. Courtesy has been called "a series of petty compromises." Good manners has been called "a substitute for love."